tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3599655836040142750.post1619255508659510997..comments2023-07-31T09:35:21.967-04:00Comments on Fresh Widow: KittySupa Dupa Freshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07659738264922395349noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3599655836040142750.post-86430994489154971782010-05-12T10:00:52.996-04:002010-05-12T10:00:52.996-04:00Annie and J,
Thanks, yes, I was able to keep thi...Annie and J, <br /><br />Thanks, yes, I was able to keep things in perspective. I had some of the regret about the way Gavin and I coped, the ease of dealing with just a pet, and on the other hand, I was really sad for the coming loss of a creature they loved. Even with perspective, it's still sad and it was, actually, not an ordinary Sunday, either, but I was trying to contain myself because that one moment was plenty. :-(Supa Dupa Freshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07659738264922395349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3599655836040142750.post-10708033037518007912010-05-12T05:40:03.595-04:002010-05-12T05:40:03.595-04:00'Quiet dignity' is as much of a coping str...'Quiet dignity' is as much of a coping strategy as crying, screaming, kicking and cursing. I don't know that one is any better than the other for the person suffering the loss. It may make the bereaved person easier for the world to cope with, but whether internalising the pain in that way is the best way to heal, I really don't know.<br /><br />J xxJ-in-Waleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02390582364341730481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3599655836040142750.post-35516517178818732492010-05-05T15:48:58.839-04:002010-05-05T15:48:58.839-04:00Don't be sad. The bitch about hindsight is tha...Don't be sad. The bitch about hindsight is that it's only gift seems to be making us flog ourselves for making choices that were the best for the time.<br /><br />It would be nice if we could all be so graceful and accepting, but this is a cat they are dealing with. I am betting the story would be different if it were the daughter.anniehttp://anniegirl1138.comnoreply@blogger.com